Here are eight unexpected signs you may be giving off intimidating energy, and what to do about it, according to experts. Body language says a lot in conversation, whether it's just you and a friend talking, or if you're interacting with a whole group.
Even someone subtly inching away, or turning their body away from you, could be a sign of this. Klapow says. Standing a bit farther back, and speaking at a lower volume, may help prevent this.
When people don't feel quite comfortable with the energy of those around them, they tend to get quiet. Having a nervous habit of cutting people off mid-sentence is relatively common, but it could come across as intimidating. If you're so nervous that you can't wait to let others finish speaking, it may be worthwhile to find new ways to practice mindfulness , or even find a therapist who can help you with possible social anxiety.
Being avoided can be an incredibly lonely and upsetting feeling. And it often leads to more questions than answers. If there's a pattern of people avoiding you, however, it's possible this could be due to your intimidating energy. One of the main differences that can cause you to come across as intimidating is being an extrovert surrounded by introverts. If these traits fit you and you have a true go-getter attitude , it can seem quite intimidating to those people around you.
From studies made by psychologists at Princeton , they found out that it only takes people one-tenth of a second to make an initial judgment of someone. People find it intimidating as they can sense that you can read their thoughts. They feel quite unsafe and uneasy around you. They know that you can sense what they mean even when they say otherwise. Ever since you already have a strong sense of what you want in life.
Your open-minded approach in life helps you see more opportunities than others. This makes other people get jealous of you. They get intimidated by your ability to grow and succeed amidst all those risks and hardships.
You have this uncanny ability to overcome and turn negativity into a positive one. When other people fear their problems, run around, and fill their minds with worries, you see solutions. You create a plan to get things done so you can set your path to success. Do you choose your friends carefully? If you do, some think that your being selective and picky is intimidating. You know that choosing your friends carefully can be a positive thing. You prefer wonderful people with optimism, integrity, positivity, and those who are just plain amazing.
You steer away from toxic friendships because they can be burdensome and affect your mental health too. You know that the company of genuine friends will make every moment of your life happier, peaceful, and significant.
Many people get intimidated that you stick to your word and you commit to what you said you would do. You speak your mind and tell people exactly what you think. You know that words are powerful. Not only do you keep your words to others, as you also keep the words to yourself. You do this because you value yourself the same way you value others. Strong people live their lives on their terms and standards.
They believe in their worth without seeking and craving validation from others. Rather than seeking attention or getting attention from superficial things, you prefer being acknowledged for your depth and genuine personality. One reason is that you radiate the confidence and determination that most people desire to have. While most people feel unsettled with fears, the way you see fears can be quite a shock. You have had that one super nice acquaintance that secretly hates you but showers you with tons of compliments, plays with your hair, and a lot of other deceitful behavior.
People misunderstand you. Your ideas, beliefs and shared posts usually range from crazy to bat-shit crazy, extreme even. If anyone has a problem they can remove themselves from your life. Your circles start off small and remain small. To be liked is desired more than the desire to be successful.
You walk into a room and know immediately how people feel about you. More From Thought Catalog. Get our newsletter every Friday!
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